In Venezuela, the term or the word "Guayabo" refers to "Despecho or rupture" in itself, is a colloquial word used to refer to a time of mourning, when something ends, and that something is related to us, around us and how we feel about it.
Usually, it is a feeling of emptiness and / or pain. The "Guayabo" usually is concido because it is a "duel, break or empty" to a person, but people are associated with places, especially at moments.
the person, but the sites are not remembered and lived. Contrary to popular belief, there are several types of "Guayabos"
First because human beings feel joy or sadness, both sensations produced by the same person, at first be happiness and then, the absence of that feeling and / or the person causing the "Guayabo".
Second, that happiness when it comes to become sadness can happen several times with the same person, until it stops happening, but sometimes sometimes does not have a name, but several names. Not only reaches repeated scenarios happiness - pain (regardless of the order of factors) with various people throughout life or at various times.
It would be like a film with another "Location" or "plate" but the same scene with another character.
Third, the pain may not only be caused by people or situations can arise with several people and several times simultaneously.
To get a clearer idea about the "Guayabo" We can take the example of the breakdown of a relationship with a partner, friend, parent, work separately in one or more cases or with all types of relationships time.
The Labor Dimension Guayabo: When you give a job and suddenly grow, want something more, and disclaimers.
The Guayabo Dimension Friendship: How have friends with whom you spend a lot of time and suddenly grow, you want something else, you can not maintain or continue and / or you walk away.
Eros Love Guayabo Level: When you have a concept of love changes, and with it also changes the way you interact with the opposite sex or who you like.
The Guava Family Level: When you're ready to move to live alone, live your economic, social and cultural independence, you decide to make the decision and the following situations: your family will not let you, you miss them too much or both, or leave you or strange, you can not "realizarte" or "stay.
Finally, the Guayabo itself has to do with the change, with the only certainty in life, there is always something that changes: us, around us, for a moment, what we want, there is something moving, time always moving, and earth continues to rotate, and when the time comes, but you do, so will the circumstances.
You stay? You go? Do you leave? Does not matter! Embrace change!
And with the change of life, there is always a melody, a sound, a letter, a singer or a singer who says in poetry, you tell your story.
Live from Mexico Julieta Venegas says "Me Voy" A song about the Guava, but that stage of Guayabo, which is after happiness, farthest from the sadness, in the moment all the feeling goes, and if there is something, at least, you think clearly, you start thinking what if I go? or siemplemente made the decision, not you settle for less, you want more, grab your bags and fly to achieve your dreams.
